Today my girlfriend forgot her cellphone at my place, and ever since I found it I feel tempted to forage for something suspicious in it. Although we spent a load of time together and she would practically never be able to meet another guy and do something with him, I still wanted to skim through her messages and look through her facebook.
Well, I did not look through her messages and neither did I check her facebook. But why was I so tempted to do so? Am I really so distrustful?
Or is there any other reason for me to want to do something like this? Because I know, whether I find something suspicious or just some old messages from an ex-friend or if I don't even find anything, in none of these situations will I feel better than before.
So what does this mean? There's not a single reason for me to be afraid of her cheating on me, so why do I feel the need to check twice? Better be safe than sorry?
And I know that when I find something which is extremely unlikely I will feel justified for looking through her Phone, but if I look through it and don't find anything I will feel bad for being suspicious.
Help me, whats wrong with me??!
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I think that's the basic feeling we, as human beings, have these days. I wouldn't look too deeply into it--you did the right thing.
ReplyDeleteit's a normal feeling. i'm surprised how some guys can be so overprotective it's practically pushing the girl away
ReplyDeleteit's cool bro, we all feel like this, but, leave her things alone! :)
ReplyDeleteI agree with the above comments, I think it's normal to feel like that sometimes.
ReplyDeleteimo, we all have every feeling and notion in us.
ReplyDeleteit comes down to what you chose.
in the end, trust was bigger than mistrust so you are fine :)
yeah if you trust her, you shouldn't invade her privacy
ReplyDeleteI don't think there's anything all that wrong with you, you didn't look. If there was something wrong, you wouldn't have hesitated to look. Just stay at not looking, if you even slightly suspect something, it's better to talk to her about it than be sneaky, if you're sneaky, even if you find something, you're still a dick.
ReplyDeleteIt's natural to be curious. Usually it's wise to act on that feeling only when you're suspicious of weird occurrences.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you're just an opportunist? Or curious. If your thought is to look to see if she's cheating on you then that's probably your own insecurities at play.
ReplyDeleteIt's fine in my opinion. Do what you want, cause if you don't find anything, you can feel relieved!
ReplyDeleteI'm SO glad you didn't do it! It shows self control. It's human nature to be curious. It takes a lot to really think like that and ask yourself if it will make you feel any better if you did look through it. +++++Follow because I like introspection.
ReplyDeleteIts natural to wanna look. Its bad to give into the temptation. Fighting those urges is an everyday thing everyone does and it gets easier the more you do it.
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